Your husband, your friends feel, that you "look up." You are an educated adult.... with children and a career but for some reason you don't have the attention span to look at a ball? "Joan you you looked up…you need to keep your head down……" (Grrrrrrrrrr…….why did I marry this man?) I am amazed that more women don't pull an Elin Woods at this point. =)
This cycle goes on forever. The answer? As long as you think "I am looking up" and "Keep my head down " it's never going to get any better. How about that? I am not being helpful so far? …read on.
So when you teach a child to ride a bike at some point you plant a foot in the ground and push and the bike and your child goes forwards. Right? Success. You are planted on the ground and it has wheels so off your child goes to skin her knees. It's Newtons 1st. "An object at rest will remain at rest unless acted on by an unbalanced force. " That little golf club of yours that seems like nothing in your hands ….when it's going 90 miles an hour it acts like the ground and you act like the bike and forces you and your head up. (At least on the golf course you don't skin your knees. =)
Trying to hold your head down or trying to do some simple mechanical thing will never overcome that the club is too "heavy " and is pushing you up and out of the shot. Until you change the real cause you will always be getting pushed around.
Thin to win?" Nope. That's a bunch of crap. Thin means your clubs act "heavy" and you missed it.
I keep saying "heavy." This is where clients usually object heartily with comments like "But last year I paid $200 for a lighter shaft in my driver!" Odds are that made your situation worse. "Heavy" doesn't mean gross weight but the way it swings. The way a club is assembled determines if it is heavy based on the location of the balance point. If a 320 gram driver is built one way it can be VERY heavy. The same 320 gram driver built differently can be light. All the golf club feels until it hits the ball is itself rotating around YOU.
You can experience this very simply. Take your driver and hold it in one hand horizontal to the ground and walk around the kitchen with it for a few minutes. Very heavy right? Now grip down about 6 inches and you reduce the balance point length. See how much lighter it is? That is the MOI getting less.
So. Lose all the things your husband has ever chirped at you about keeping your head down and do one these three things……
1)Have the club you are hitting adjusted for a lower balance point (which also makes it go faster.). If you don't want to change the total weight of the club then some weight needs to come out of the head and that amount of weight needs to get added to the grip end. This little move changes the center of balance so the club is MOI lighter and it works like a champ.
2)If you are afraid to pull weight out of the head then you can add a weight down the shaft but on the grip end of things to change that balance. Most players use the " Tour Lock Pro." To a point with most players this will add distance as the lighter feel makes you accelerate the club faster yet since the club weighs a little more it has more punch in it. Link at Tourlockgolf.com.
3)Swing "Bigger and smoother." There is a swing size for every club. This is why big dudes on tour like Vijay Singh and Ernie Els swing so smooth. If the size of your arc is too small then accelerating it late or in a small arc will blow you up out of the shot. That is why people hit chips and pitches thin. Too big is "fat" as you generate too much power for the club and it is "light" and gets driven into the ground.
Ok? It is simple to test if your clubs are heavy or light. Here is how you help the club repair guys. For starters every club is different. NEVER let someone treat/ adjust your clubs as a set. Depending upon how they are spined or glued together they will each react differently. What you can do yourself is a lie angle test hitting balls marked with a Sharpie. Draw a heavyish line on a range ball or your ball on the course and immediately set it up vertical and hit it. It should leave a mark on the face of your club. The location of the mark reveals the physics of the club. If it is low on the face the club is too heavy. If it is high on the face the club is light and you are driving it too deep into the ground. If it marks on the toe your club is too long (yes, too long) and if it marks heel side it is too short. If it marks all over your club is wonky and needs to be correctly spined.
Don't do the Elin Woods thing with your hubby btw....he's a good guy.